Personally, I joined this community because it seemed like a safe place to talk about loving vaginas, and having a vagina includes having your period and the such. I completely trust Mel and Natasha, our faithful mods, for their choice of banning a member if they feel she is not welcome. HOWEVER.. she said nothing that should have gotten her banned, from what I can see. What she does with her own body is her decision. This is not a community for us to laugh at girls who are unique and individual in their ways. We should be proud that they want to share their lives and stories with us. Most of us should be as lucky to not be self conscious.